Your child isn’t refusing school. 

They’re telling you something — and you’re not failing for listening. 

A calm, compassionate mini-course to help you understand what’s really happening, support your child at home, and create a path forward without panic, punishment, or pressure. 

You’ll receive:

✅ 2 gentle, practical video lessons 


✅ A downloadable workbook

✅ Calm scripts for home + school conversations 


✅ A soft daily rhythm planner 


✅ Printable visuals: The SAFE lens, 3Rs model, Safe Base Pyramid 


✅ Reflection prompts, co-regulation tools + quick wins 

Instant access. No pressure. Yours to keep.

This is for you if… 

  • Your child is struggling to attend school — or has stopped going completely 

  • Mornings are full of tears, shutdowns, or meltdowns 

  • You feel judged, overwhelmed, or blamed — and don’t know what to do 

  • You're trying your best, but nothing feels calm or clear 

What You’ll Learn: 

Module 1: Understanding What’s Happening 

  • Why school avoidance isn’t defiance 

  • The SAFE lens (stress, avoidance, nervous system states, environment) 

  • How to spot your child’s nervous system patterns 

  • A new way to talk about distress (to yourself + others) 

Module 2: Building the Safe Base 

  • How to create rhythm, regulation, and connection at home 

  • What to do when everything feels too much 

  • How to use co-regulation and sensory tools gently 

  • Scripts for calm communication — at home and with school 

Who’s Behind This Course? 

I'm Kirsteen, a specialist occupational therapist who supports children with neurodevelopmental needs — and their families. 

I created this course to give you the language, confidence, and clarity you need to support your child in a way that’s rooted in compassion, not compliance. 

By the end of this course, you’ll… 

✔ Understand your child’s behaviour through a nervous system lens 
✔ Feel calmer, clearer, and more confident at home 
✔ Know what to say to your child — and to school 
✔ Have tools you can actually use when things get hard 

This is not:

✘ A reintegration plan 
✘ A behaviour management course 
✘ A guilt trip or checklist of what you “should” be doing 

This is:

✔ A starting point 
✔ A moment of calm 
✔ A quiet “you’re not alone” 

Get Immediate Access for £27

Start where you are. You are the safe base. 

Supporting Your Child When They Can’t Attend School
£27.00
One time

This is for you if… Your child is struggling to attend school — or has stopped going completely Mornings are full of tears, shutdowns, or meltdowns You feel judged, overwhelmed, or blamed — and don’t know what to do You're trying your best, but nothing feels calm or clear

✓ 2 gentle, practical video lessons
✓ 2 downloadable workbooks
✓ Instant access. No pressure. Yours to keep.